Sunday 30 January 2011

Alis is away...

I am lucky. Both my parents are alive and well and living in Wales. All my grandparents either died when I was too young to be really cognisant of it or when they were in their late 90s and a good life had been well lived. I have not known the grief of losing somebody close to me.

My other half is not so lucky. Her father died prematurely ten years ago. Now, my mother in law has just died suddenly. We knew she had a life-threatening condition but had not expected things to take quite such an abrupt turn.

So, we are in France, dealing with the fallout not only of parental death but of dying intestate in a country whose language we , and her other heirs, speak imperfectly (and whose legal language we speak not at all). Thank God for wonderful neighbours.

I shall be here awhile, so do not expect writing updates any time soon...

6 comments:

Frances Garrood said...

I'm so sorry, Alis. Will be thinking of you.

Alis said...

Thanks, Frances.

Juxtabook said...

I am very sorry Alis. Loss is bad enough with langage and legal problems. Take care.

Alis said...

Thanks, Catherine. We're getting there and the funeral was beautiful. Home at the weekend.

Akasha Savage. said...

Thinking of you both xx

Deborah Swift said...

When you get back from your trip, you will find I have awarded you a lovely blog award which I hope cheers you up.